”Why get out of bed in the morning?” I have work to do. ”Why go to work?” Because I need to earn a living. ”Why earn a living?” Because I want a roof over my head and food on the table and I don’t want to suffer. ”Why not suffer?” Because it’s painful. ”Why avoid pain?” Because I fear it. She thought these thoughts in herself and realized at that point that most of her actions in life came out of the avoidance of pain and that made her feel trapped and she didn’t like that.